Friday, 15 April 2016

My Breast Reduction Story

I have had such a huge response to my breast reduction story and wanted to address all of the questions which I have received. If you haven't had a chance to watch my story it's at the end of this blog for you.
 Please please excuse me for this generic post. I really want to answer all emails personally but the video has has such a massive response that it would take weeks to answer all 500 + emails and I have to fly to America for work early tomorrow.
I have read all of them though and tried to incorporate answers to all of the questions asked here...


Finding a surgeon
Ask around, if you know any doctors then ask them to find a good surgeon for you.
Make contact with them and go with your gut. I contacted three surgeons and chose the female specialist because I felt that she would understand how much is meant to me.
You will most probably have to pay for the consultation whether you choose to use the consultant or not as it is their time.

Consultation
The initial meeting will involve the surgeon looking at your breasts to determine your suitability for the operation and explaining the procedure, risks and cost.
There are always risks involved when undergoing general anaesthesia plus a breast reduction runs the added risk of losing nipple sensation or in some cases the nipple altogether. Also, there would be difficulty with breast feeding should I want anymore children (er….NOPE!) They will also explain that you will be left with extensive scarring.

Pre-Op
As soon as I had decided to have the op I just wanted to do it immediately. One of the hardest parts was waiting the two months it took to have the space in my diary to fit it in. I could hardly be bothered to make an effort to get dressed because I was living for that moment. I even dreamt about it almost every night.
My surgeon had explained to me that I would need to take about a month off work, so I chose to have my op at the beginning of December as I could link it into the Christmas holidays.

The Op
I had to check in at the hospital for 7:00am. My surgeon Elaine Sassoon came to my room and drew on my breasts with a pen to mark out the incisions. I must say that it was all feeling pretty surreal at this point but I never once doubted my choice. 
I was in theatre by 8:00am. I cannot fault Spire Hospital at all. They were brilliant from start to finish.
I'm going to go into details here…
Two porters wheeled me into the theatre where I met the rest of the team. I vaguely remember them telling me what drugs they we administering, one of which was Propofol. Clearly, reading a book on Michael Jacksons death the week leading up to my Op wasn’t the wisest choice of literature, as my final words before sleeping were “that’s the drug that killed Michael”

During surgery they cut the full length under each breast and upwards to the nipple and around it. The nipple is kept attached for blood supply but repositioned higher up on the chest to account for the new breast position. Tissue is removed from underneath and then the breast is put back together, Much is the same way as if you have ever made one of those paper angel Christmas tree toppers. The breast is then carefully stitched back together with one tube (drain) on either breast to drain any fluid.

Post-Op
I awoke in the recovery room, with zero recollection of anything that had just happened to me. I wasn’t in any pain at all. Elaine had added some pain blockers so I felt nothing!
I was then returned to my room, soon to be joined by my mum, Nic and my boyfriend Steff. They were all much more worried than I was.
As I mentioned, I had drains so when I needed to visit the bathroom a member of staff had to unhook me but this was the only thing that really reminded me of what I had just undergone.
The nurse bought me regular painkillers but at this stage I only felt a tightness in my chest and panic that I might rip my stitches when I moved too fast.
The cannula in my hand and the drains were the worst part of this.
At some point in the evening Elaine came to check that my nipples were pink and that the blood flow was ok.
I was released from hospital at 4pm the following day after my drains were removed which was by far the worst part of the whole process because I am a bit of a wimp. It didn’t hurt but the thought of pulling these tubes out of my skin made me feel queasy.

At Home
I was able to move around pretty freely almost immediately, however Elaine had warned me to take it really easy and to pretend I was 80 years old for the first week and 70 the second etc… and work backwards with the weeks until I reached my actual age. She had also given me two soft sports bras and I must wear one of these at ALL times for 6 weeks.
My breasts were currently bandaged so I could not see the stitches.
I cannot remember how long it was before the bandages were removed but it was 1-2 weeks.
At this point I looked in the mirror and saw the extent of the surgery. It really was very shocking. Imagine the Bride of Frankensteins boobs!
I will be honest, the scarring is extensive but not one part of me cares. It’s like having a tattoo. I’m proud of the journey. However, if you are really worried about the aesthetics then I would suggest not having this surgery. I chose scars instead of enormous boobs and I’m happy with that decision.
The stitches were dissolvable but would stay surgically taped for 6 weeks to minimise scarring.

Exercise
I desperately wanted to go for a run to try out my new boobs but this would not be possible until about 10 weeks later. Light exercise would have been possible from about 6 weeks but avoid major stretching, lifting or anything strenuous.

I hope that this is useful and answers all your questions.

Thanks for the support as always,
Sam.x




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  1. Thank you so much for sharing this with us Sam. It is a scary thing to take the leap and get the surgery so well done xx

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    1. Wow...I found this by mistake...i feel the same..im 5ft 1 and im now down to an E from a FF...that was just a stress event in my life..However..I always feel my boobs get to places before I do. People coment..stare...My waist is hidden cos im soo short..It feels that i look like a blob....Im in the building trade and yes it right, men think they can just touch me as though im not there...i have the strap marks...Everything you said..photos i just look stupid...It was soo nice to hear someone else say how i feel out loud.. Thank you xxxxx

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  2. I had two consults here in Canada, and both times something beyond my control had me wait for the surgery. I suffer from anxiety and panic and its holding me back now from doing it. You also suffer so this helped me a lot. Happy for you!!! It's true that they make us look much heavier than we are and my boobs are always a topic of conversation. I'm used to it, but it is annoying. Thanks for sharing your story. Love you so much!!

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    1. Yeah it's pretty scary but I only felt anxious the night before, which I think most people would do. I was so excited to just get it done that anxiety leading up to the day was never really a problem.x

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  3. I'm a student nurse and I'm internally cringing when a patient gets drains removed as it looks so painful! So no you are definitely not a wimp! So glad this surgery has worked for you and that you are so happy with the results!

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  4. Thank you so much for sharing this story. I am 41 and have been wanting to do this for 20 years, now that I am done having and nursing kids I am working hard on losing the weight again and when I am done I will finally make this dream come true!

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  5. I am pleased it went well for you, a very interesting video and now you are ok can you do a tutorial on that gorgeous eye make up you have on in this video.x

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  6. Has breatfeeding changed anything about the size of your boobs? And can you recommend any good brands for bras that don't look like they belong to my grandma?

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    1. Hi there, if you're in the UK check Bravissimo if not I'll leave you a link below with plenty of resources, hope it helps!

      http://www.thinandcurvy.com/
      (just in case is worth mentioning I'm not affiliated with Bravissimo or the blog!)

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  7. I have also had the big problem and seriously have wanted to do this! Thank u so much for the info now i feel i can go thru with the procedure and finally b happy in my own body. Thank u sooo much ! Much love to u

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  8. I have also had the big problem and seriously have wanted to do this! Thank u so much for the info now i feel i can go thru with the procedure and finally b happy in my own body. Thank u sooo much ! Much love to u

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  9. My friend has the surgery and it's now 3 years later and her 'anchor' scar is barely visible and she has infections that opened up one scar!

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  10. I have followed you and your channel for years. You've become a beautiful strong woman and I'm glad you went ahead and did what made you happy!! Thanks for sharing!

    Paola

    http://paolamq.blogspot.com/

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  11. What a brilliant video to make, such courage and honesty. I know exactly how you feel, I have massive boobs too. Surgery isn't the option for me just because it is not the right choice for me but I fully support anyone who is able to identify that this is what they want to do and follow through with it. You speak very movingly and a couple of things really struck a chord with me, mainly people grabbing them (seriously, why? Why would anyone thing this is ok?) and people staring at them. It makes me so cross that people act in such a thoughtless way with no idea of the impact their actions have on others. Good for you lovely, and well done for putting this out there. xxx

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  12. Hi Sam! Thank you for sharing your journey. I went for a surgery myself (thyroid) and as you say, it's not very pleasant. As for the scars, usually they increase and become red 2-3 months after the surgery, and decrease to be fully healed 1 year later. My surgeon told me to massage every day with a moisterizer cream to help it deflate and to help it become as supple as before.
    I wish you well

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  13. I enjoy listening to you & Nic. You both are so normal, relatable & brave. This is a video I need to share with my sister who I think will appreciate your message.

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  15. Fantastic video, so helpful for anyone going through the same thing and the follow up is super interesting. My sisters and I are all 30E and we all suffer with back pain so I can totally understand the psychological and physiological reasons for a surgery like this. It's great to hear it's been such a positive experience for you and the perfect reason to take a proper break throughout December too :)

    Mel X
    Mediamarmalade.com

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  16. I felt quite emotional watching your video because I completely relate to everything you said. My boobs have been big from about the age of 15 and I've had years of constant comments, remarks and stares my whole life that they have at times actually made me feel disgusting. I remember when I was about 17 a friend's uncle made a joke about the size of them in front of a room full of her family (including his own wife) and everyone laughed and the feeling I felt that day can still bring me to tears now (why did no-one say anything about a man making that comment about a teenage girl?) From then on, I just hated them to the point that I've felt physically sick about them and I hated the sexualisation of having big boobs, does that make sense? Most of my life, I've dressed in a way that hides my boobs and I still do but as I've got older (I'm now 40) I've learned to just live with them and with age comes confidence so I can now handle comments from people and when a man stares at my boobs while we're having a conversation, I just stare at his hair line - it works a treat! I have thought about a breast reduction a couple of times and at the moment it's not for me, but that doesn't mean I won't feel differently in a year. I think what you've done has been brave and I want to thank you for an honest and considered video and I'm happy that you've made the right decision for yourself.
    Thanks again for sharing
    Lisa x

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    1. LOVE the staring at the hairline trick, hilarious.xx

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  17. Thank you for making this video. I relate to everything you said. I'm completely miserable because of my boobs to the point that I hate my body. I don't do so many things that I would like to do because of them. I hate the way they feel. I hate the way they look. I hate what they have done to my shoulders and my posture. I hate that they keep me from having fun. I will never wear a bathing suit or do any outdoor activities that I used to enjoy so much. I don't even like leaving the house anymore because wearing a bra hurts. And there is no way I can leave the house with out one. Nothing fits me. I just hide and avoid people, life and mirrors. I'm completely unhappy.

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    1. Wearing a bra is not supposed to hurt :( I'll leave you a link I think might help you: http://www.thinandcurvy.com/ hope it is useful.
      Nowadays there is gorgeous lingerie, swimwear and even clothes for big boobs, I'm sure you'll find something that fits you!

      P.S.: if the link above isn't enough check this one http://hourglassy.com/, there are lots of resources for people like us on the web!

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  18. My breast nightmare started about eight years ago, and requires a bit of an explanation. I have an allergy to my own high levels of oestrogen, and an allergy to oestrogen itself. For many years prior to this, having a period truly was hell on Earth. When I hear women talking about cramps, PMT etc, I think of how lucky they are.

    For two weeks out of every month, I would dry heave. Two weeks of every month. The pain was debilitating to the point where I would just lie in bed, unable to do anything bar blink. The rashes twice had me tested for Meningitis, and a few other various symptoms. Anyway, after ten years of this, a doctor had the bright idea to put me on the Pill.

    Yes, the Pill choc full of oestrogen. The pain stopped, which was something, but the dry heaving turned into an all-out yark fest. I went down to 4 stone in weight because I was just constantly being sick, I would feel like I was floating, and other lovely little issues cropped up.

    Then I hit the age of 25, and by this point, I'd just been taken off the Pill after six months of what can only be described as torture. I'm a small gal at 4'11, and because I'm missing an entire leg, hip, and part of my pelvis, I don't weigh very much. Anyway, I went to bed one night with 32B boobs, and I kid you not, I woke up at 5:38 am with a 34C bust. My chest in general was painful, swollen, and felt like it was on fire.

    Doctor was seen, and she was clueless enough to tell me to enjoy it, that the swelling would go down. It didn't, and I remained a 34C for two years before it happened again. In the space of three days, I went from a 34C to a 32DD.

    I'm a 4'11, size 10 gal with a mashed spine. The last thing in the world I needed were a set of twin Everests on my chest. Everywhere I went, I was accused of implants, of doing something to boost my bust, and it's bad enough trying to get people to speak to you when you're in a chair, let alone when you have gigantic boobs under your chin.

    It was the 32DD that *finally* got me sent to a doctor at the hospital. Dr. Sengkupta, that beautiful man, took one look at me, skimmed my file in front of him, and diagnosed me right then and there.

    My boobs went down to a 34C, which I can live with, but if they ever, ever use Miracle Gro again, I'll go under the knife, even if I have to sell a kidney to do it.

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    1. So glad you found the answers, best of luck for the future.x

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  19. I feel you, I'm a 36 GG and I've considered it. I think I'll wait until I have kids though.

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  20. Did you ever experience any pain before breast surgery from bigger breasts? Did surgery alleviate the pain? Thank you for sharing your story for everyone going through this xx.

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  21. Sam, you truly are an inspiration! I have just got engaged (like 3 days ago!) and I am a JJ cup. I hate them and I am so self conscious. I have been considering surgery for about 2 years, and I think I would definitely want to have a reduction before I got married. My boyfriend's mum has previously made jokes about how my boobs will be so big when I get pregnant that I'll be bent over. There's been tonnes of comments from different people and its hateful! I applaud your attitude Can I ask why you didn't go to NHS and why you went private? Was it time? Or another reason?

    Love you!

    Áine xx

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    1. That's a nasty thing to say, sorry you had to hear that :(

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    2. In the UK it isn't available on the NHS.X

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  22. I must admit I burst out laughing at the Michael Jackson bit! I'm glad the surgery all went well :) x

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  24. What a lovely post. I am the opposite, I had mine enlarged 18 months ago and it was the best thing I have ever done

    Lauren x | www.laurenapowers.blogspot.com

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  25. Would love a before and after, if you're comfortable sharing. <3 <3 <3

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  26. Going for mine on Friday :) I am so happy and scared at the same time.How was the pain ? I know every person is different..but ur video helped thank u x

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    1. (dont know why my name does not come up but I am Elena :)

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    2. I had my two years ago. I went from a 34GG to 34E. The pain was minimal, and I had no pain killers. I am not a hero, I just have a serious allergy to them. It is very manageable. And the pain is only temporary, the results are life altering. I could care less about the scarring, the smaller breasts along with no more back pain is worth every scar.
      Cinders

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    3. Cinders thank u for u msg I am havin my breast surgery tomorrow and feeling really l anxious but ur comment is much appreciated thank u x Elena

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  27. Nic, you brought tears to my eyes. Brought back all of the emotions I felt when I went through it, gosh, over 20 years ago! How brave of you to share your story. Inspiring. Thank you xx

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  28. Hi Sam! You are so brave, I've wanted this surgery done for years and I'm only 20 now. Can I ask if you had it done on the NHS or privately? Without sounding cheeky roughly what was the cost?
    xx

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  29. I am very proud of you...I haveto make two breast reductions in 15 years because my boobs ars always growing, they never stop and my back has so much pain...I have to make also a back surgery....but the twice I have to operate my boobs are the best thing I've ever made....no fear for the surgery, no fear for the scars, no fear for the post op...I'm very happy and glad about the final results...so if you have breast problems because of the oversize of your boobs, I do recommend the surgery as you and me did. If your health is going to improve, you must do the breast reduction...don't think, just do it

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  30. I would love a breast reduction but mine is more down to weight, I know if I lost a couple pounds they would be more manageable!

    Meme xx


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  31. Sam, thank you so much for sharing! Love your video!
    Hugs,
    Love from www.trangscorner.com {a lifestyle, fashion, beauty, and food blog}

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  32. Hi Sam, I've just got my date for my surgery (4 weeks today). Been looking forward to it for so long but now the more I think about it the more nervous I get!! Just wondering if you minded sharing what size you've gone down to - I'm the same size now as you were before so would be great to have an idea as a reference

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  33. Hi Sam,
    Don't normally comment on posts but decided to after watching your youtube story. It actually made me cry to hear you talk about how your boobs made you feel. It was like everything you said is how I feel. It Evoked so many emotions,from friends commenting constantly on boobs to feeling great sadness. Thank you for sharing.
    Allie x

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  34. Hi Sam,
    I am a huge fan of you and Nic, and your story is exactly like mine. I am 2 years post-op and you will be amazed the difference. I cannot even remember what it was like before, but I am aware that I no longer have any neck/back pain or headaches every day. For those about to head into surgery, do not be nervous, do your homework ahead of time, and just know that the end result has a lot to do with your own body structure. Mine actually turned out far better than I ever imagined! The better part, however, was being able to wear a sports bra and participate in more activities. Finding a nice bra is a nice perk, as well. You are in my thoughts as you recover, Sam. I am excited to see more updates. And, lastly, thank you for sharing. Many people would not discuss this, and there should be no shame attached to doing what we need to, to improve our quality of life. I am proud of my scars, and do not try to hide them!
    xxoo
    Cinders

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